Melissa J. Calderon, age 45, of Bon Aqua, Tennessee, formerly of Ocean Township, New Jersey, passed away suddenly on January 16, 2018 at her home.

She is survived by her loving children, David Finamori of Murfreesboro, Tennessee, Demi Finamori of Murfreesboro, Tennessee, who were her whole world. Her mother, Debra Hirschmann of Murfreesboro, Tennessee; her brother Anthony Calderon of Howell, NJ; her sister, Katie Sniffen and brother-in-law Bryan Sniffen of Farmingdale, New Jersey; her sister Dianna Calderon of Baltimore, Maryland; her Uncle Eric Lee of Apopka, Florida; her fiancé' Mark Purdom of Bon Aqua, Tennessee; her best friend and "sister from another Mother" Gina M. Koch- Shamblin of Bradley Beach, New Jersey; and her nieces and nephew.

She was preceded in death by her stepdad, Jeff Hirschmann, and her brother, Robert "Bobby" Calderon.

Her friends and family are invited to attend a memorial service in her memory on January 26, 2018 at 2:00pm at Woodfin Memorial Chapel, 1488 Lascassas Pike, Murfreesboro, Tennessee 37130.

Also for family and friends there will be a service on Feb 3, 2018, at Woodbine Cemetery, 14 Maple Avenue, Oceanport, New Jersey 07757 from 10:30am until 11:00am. She will be buried alongside her brother Bobby.

Cremation arrangements are under the direction of Woodfin Funeral Chapels, Murfreesboro, Tennessee.