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Lucy Cole

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Durham Strickland

July 30, 1925 – December 18, 2008

Obituary

Lucy Cole Durham Strickland, 83, of Murfreesboro, died peacefully on Thursday, December 18, 2008, at Middle Tennessee Medical Center, four weeks and 6 days after sustaining a debilitating stroke. Lucy was born on July 30, 1925, at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. She was the only child of Lucy Cole Durham and Plato Tracy Durham. Her mother was an accomplished pianist who worked as a school teacher. Dean of the Candler School of Theology at Emory, her father had assumed a prominent role in the politics of desegregation and civil rights. Following his death when Lucy was just four years old, she moved with her mother to Richmond, Virginia, where she grew up in the embrace of an extensive circle of cousins and uncles and aunts. Disappointed by kindergarten, young Lucy did not hesitate to protest, I want to learn some hard knowledge. She attended St. Catherine's School for Girls in Richmond, and then enrolled in Randolph-Macon Women's College in Lynchburg, Virginia. She majored in mathematics, was a member of Phi Beta Kappa, and earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1946 at the top of her class. While pursuing graduate studies at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Lucy enlisted Roscoe L. Strickland, Jr. to tutor her in Russian. Soon thereafter she abandoned academic ambitions to marry Roscoe, and their daughter Alice was born in 1948. Roscoe accepted a faculty appointment at Middle Tennessee State College, and the young family moved to Murfreesboro in 1949. Here Lucy gave birth to three more children, taught mathematics for a time at MTSU, and invested herself wholeheartedly in community affairs. She was the first President of the Murfreesboro League of Women Voters, acted as Secretary/Treasurer of the state League of Women Voters, served as an Officer of Citizens for Court Modernization in Nashville, and was instrumental in the instigation of a lawsuit for reapportionment of the Rutherford County School Board, requiring equal representation and education opportunities for all citizens. In 1972 Roscoe accepted an offer to become President of Southern Seminary Junior College, and the family moved to Buena Vista, Virginia. During that interlude Lucy enrolled in the Law School of Washington & Lee University. She received a law degree in 1976 at the age of 50, and was honored with the United States Law Week Award. She and Roscoe moved again to Hillsborough, North Carolina, with the mission of restoring Hardscrabble Plantation, and there Lucy opened a law practice. In 1980 she co-authored The Law and the Elderly in North Carolina. Throughout the years in Virginia and North Carolina, Lucy yearned for those friendships and culture that had shaped her life in Murfreesboro. In 1988 she and Roscoe made a joyful return. Here she practiced law at Kidwell, South & Beasley until her retirement in 2004. She served as Trustee and Member of the Executive Committee of the MTSU Foundation from 1996 to 2002. Lucy was an avid reader, a prodigious correspondent, an enthusiastic ornithologist and amateur astronomer. She knew the name of every tree and flower and bird in her proximate landscape. After dark, she turned to identifying those stars and planets that migrated across the sky. She belonged to the same book club for more than 55 years, and has recently expressed her wisdom as an appointee to the editorial board of The Daily News Journal. Cooking, sewing, and philosophy were pursuits that she undertook with flair. She took pleasure in piano playing and singing with the choir, and her appetite for classical music was inexhaustible. As a sports fan, Lucy manifested a particular affinity for basketball, and she frequently attended games at MTSU. She was a member of St. Marks United Methodist Church. Lucy was predeceased by her husband, Roscoe L. Strickland, Jr. (1917-1997), and two daughters, Alice M. Strickland (1948-1956) and Tracy D. Strickland (1963-1972). She is survived by a daughter, Rachel M. Strickland of San Francisco; a son, Roscoe L. Rocky Strickland III of Raleigh, North Carolina; and a granddaughter, Tracy A. Strickland, of Raleigh. Lucy wrote of herself, in an entry for the 50th reunion of her Randolph-Macon class: Like most, I imagine, I can report that my adult life has not been what my mother (class of 03) would have expected " or what I expected. Still I think I remain to a large extent the product of my genteel Southern upbringing, with most of my basic values acquired early on still intact. What a change in womens lives we have seen in this 50 years! Our feet were never bound, but we still suffered girdles and submitted to some mindless feminine stereotypes; even Gillie Larew, an outstandingly independent woman, once told us our greatest influence in the world would be through our children. . . . I do not define myself as a wife, or as a mother, or as a lawyer " or as a volunteer or committee person or whatever. Perhaps I should start by thinking of myself as a woman, not limited by but enriched by womanhood. If something could best describe me, I hope it would be my friendships, some going back more than these 50 years. Many of these friends are far distant " or dead " but it does not change the, to me, sustaining power of the relationships. . . . I am sure that each of us has made some tangible or intangible contributions that may be characterized as leaves detached from our respective trees " and I hope that we all have good and wise friends who value our trees, even in fall and winter. A service to celebrate Lucy Stricklands life will be held at 3 oclock on Saturday, December 20, 2008, at St. Marks United Methodist Church. Interment will follow at Evergreen Cemetery, Murfreesboro. The family will receive friends at Saint Marks two hours prior to the service. Memorial donations may be made to St. Marks United Methodist Church, 1267 N. Rutherford Blvd., Murfreesboro, TN 37130, or to the MTSU Foundation, PO Box 109, Murfreesboro, TN 37132. Woodfin Memorial Chapel. 615-893-5151. www.woodfinchapel.com
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